The Golden Spoon

S7E12 - Tough Love (Being Blunt)

February 15, 2024 McCahill & Jeremy Season 7 Episode 12
S7E12 - Tough Love (Being Blunt)
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The Golden Spoon
S7E12 - Tough Love (Being Blunt)
Feb 15, 2024 Season 7 Episode 12
McCahill & Jeremy

What does tough love mean in parenting?

"tough love" combined empathy to send a message that essentially says, "I know you don't like the rules, but I'm going to enforce them anyway because it's good for you, and I love you."

What is tough love in an adult to an adult form?

It doesn't mean you accept maltreatment or abuse but that you love the person. It can also mean being supportive and doing what you can to guide them in a positive direction. Tough love is about maintaining distance and setting boundaries with an individual who is not respecting your boundaries or abilities.

Here’s the truth: 

Tough love isn’t a formula or quick fix to the heartache you face. But it’s the right thing to do in some situations — and the only healthy choice — even if change doesn’t look exactly like you had hoped.

To end on a positive everyone is faking it until they make it. Emotions are important in all of your relationships no matter the status, and love is always free to give. 

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What does tough love mean in parenting?

"tough love" combined empathy to send a message that essentially says, "I know you don't like the rules, but I'm going to enforce them anyway because it's good for you, and I love you."

What is tough love in an adult to an adult form?

It doesn't mean you accept maltreatment or abuse but that you love the person. It can also mean being supportive and doing what you can to guide them in a positive direction. Tough love is about maintaining distance and setting boundaries with an individual who is not respecting your boundaries or abilities.

Here’s the truth: 

Tough love isn’t a formula or quick fix to the heartache you face. But it’s the right thing to do in some situations — and the only healthy choice — even if change doesn’t look exactly like you had hoped.

To end on a positive everyone is faking it until they make it. Emotions are important in all of your relationships no matter the status, and love is always free to give. 

We hope you enjoy this and consider helping out!
Please leave a comment and review our episode and give some feedback on what we can improve on!

Thank You All For Listening and Downloading
We drop an episode every Thursday
Follow us on all of our socials

Support the Show.

The 988 Lifeline
988 is now active across the United States. This new, shorter phone number will make it easier for people to remember and access mental health crisis services. (Please note, the previous 1-800-273-TALK (8255) number will continue to function indefinitely.) https://988lifeline.org/